Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Slum Book 101


  1. What is your name?

Veronica Baje

  1. What is your nickname?

Nica, Nic, Nix

  1. When were you born?

June 7, 1988

  1. What is your favorite color?

Green

  1. What is your favorite food?

Anything without veggie and something that has not a lot of fat.

  1. What TV shows do you watch most?

Showtime! Smallville. Will & Grace.

  1. What is your favorite movie of all time?

Finding Nemo

  1. Who is your favorite actor/actress?

Coco Martin. Nicole Kidman. Tom Cruise

  1. What type of music do you listen to?

Alternative Rock, Pop, RnB.

  1. Who is your favorite singer?

Alex Max Band

  1. Who is your favorite band?

The Calling, 2NE1, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus

  1. What is your favorite book?

Abarat, Lily of the Valley

  1. Who is your favorite author?

Margareth Rome, Clive Barker, Nicholas Sparks

  1. Describe yourself in one word.

Loud.

  1. What are your hobbies?

Writing, sleeping, eating, listening to music, Watching movies and DVDs.

  1. What is your ambition in life?

To get my own house and to buy a red convertible.

  1. What is your greatest dream?

To become the richest and most famous girl in the world!

  1. Who are your close friends?

Norman Acosta, Riarose Zaira Vitto, John Louie Cunanan.

  1. Who is your best friend?

It was Ferdinand Pomento.

  1. Who was your first kiss?

I can’t remember.

  1. Who is your crush?

Most of them are bisexuals and some of them are taken so I’m not going to name anybody.

  1. Describe your ideal mate.

Someone who will be ready to take me as I am. Someone who is willing to give up everything ad will not be afraid to fight for me. Someone who will not force me to become someone who I can never become. Someone who is not looking for a girl who knows how to cook. Someone who will need me more than I will need him.

  1. Who is your inspiration?

Helen Keller and my family.

  1. Describe your special someone?

I don’t have a special someone at the moment but if ever I will have, I want him to be smarter than me. I want him to be cute ad he should be a great cook. I want him to be the most sensible person to talk to.

  1. Define love?

Love is a grave mental disorder but for some people, love is the reason for their existence. It gives color to their life. As for me, I have to believe in love first before I can give it a definite meaning.

  1. What is your motto in life?

I am not afraid of storms for I know how to sail my ship. –Helen Keller

  1. If you are an animal, what animal are you and why?

A cat. Cats are lazy, they love to sleep. They are sweet and playful.

  1. Describe your ideal date.

Coco Martin.

  1. If you will be given a chance to meet one prominent personality, who will it be and what will you ask him/her?

Alex Max Band. I will ask him, “Will you marry me?”

  1. Are you happy? Why?

Yes. I have air in my lungs, I have work, I have a lot of friends and a few admirers. I have my family and a stable life. What else would I need?

Friday, March 12, 2010

Let’s Talk About Love, Love, Love!

I can still remember clearly the first time I had a crush. I was I kindergarten and my mom told me that I was just a “saling pusa” that time. I was in my big brother’s class and he had a classmate named Marlon. He was so told and he had beautiful eyes, he was the first ever crush that I had my whole life.

The reason why I am writing this one is because of a call I had last week. The security question I the account was ‘When did you got married?’ It was really sweet to use that as the security question since most people that I know can’t even remember to celebrate anniversaries anymore.

I’m in the early twenties and up to know I am still single. I’ve had a couple of flings and a few relationships before but I guess none of those meant to last. I really think I am afraid to commit to anybody. I have crushes and I consider myself dating at the moment but most of the guys that I like are gay. Well, I have crushes with straight guys but some of them are in a relationship and most of them are married.

I think that the main reason why I find it hard to find a guy that will make me fall is that I don’t believe in love anymore. Most of my married girlfriends says that I am only thinking this way because I am still young and I haven’t found the guy that will make me head over heals. Well, I don’t see myself getting married in any way. I don’t like the thought of having kids and settling with just a single man. Whenever I date somebody, the first thing they talk about is marriage. I really do get turned down once they babble about that kind of stuff. A typical guy wants to be tied up to a girl that knows how to cook and who love kids. Well, in my case, I want a guy who will accept me even if I am not a great cook. I want a man who will still be happy to be with me even if I don’t want to have kids. I want a guy who just wants to be with me and not to make me some kind of a baby maker and cook. I want a man who will love me and accept all the imperfection I have.

I think that I am not the romantic type of girl. I like adventure. I even like competition. I get more attracted to guys who are in a commitment. I guess they are harder to please and it’s really challenging. I easily fall for bisexuals because most of them can understand all my mood sings. They are also very witty and there are no dull moments with them.

Well then, I guess love is not for me. Like what Nicholas Sparks said I his book A Walk to Remember, ‘Love is a leap of Faith’. We have to believe in it to feel it. We have to have faith in order to find true love ad be loved in return.